I session from exclusive private suites in London, chosen for their elegance and complete discretion. They’re beautifully equipped for everything we might explore together, so all you need to bring is your curiosity and your willingness to obey.
If you can’t come to Me in person, distance needn’t keep you from My attention. I also offer sessions by phone and video, so wherever you are, you can still kneel for Me. Simply mention it when you write to My assistant, Jessica.
Ready to take the first step? Excellent. Once you’ve read all the information here, apply for a session. My assistant Jessica will be in touch.
I’m available to meet from 11am, with last booking at 8pm, on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday (finishing at 7pm on Thursdays). I prefer advance bookings, but can sometimes accommodate same-day enquiries.
Before the day itself, take some time to read all the information provided here on My website. Reflect on your desires and intentions.
Seeing a BDSM Mistress can be intense, so on the day itself, stay hydrated and have a light meal or snack a few hours in advance.
And crucially: Timing is everything. Arrive punctually – neither early nor late.
My schedule rarely allows for it unfortunately, and my commitments keep Me tied to London. However, If you’d like to meet for longer, I’m available for extended and full day bookings into the evening, including lunch, dinner and exploring the city, all interspersed with kink. I offer these both midweek and at weekends – what better way to spend a Sunday? If you’re not able to get to London but want to meet, the best way to get acquainted is via video or phone chat.
If you ask politely, yes, I’ll consider a request. This must be made before the Monday of the week you intend to session.
If you’re interested in something different than My own garments, I’d invite you to bring Me a present. My assistant can advise on sizing, or you can consult My wishlist.
I do, and I consider 3 a magic number indeed. I specialised in teaching couples during My time at the London Dominatrix School and have been deeply touched to be invited to sessions with many gorgeous couples over the years.
Whether you want to explore a new dynamic, or learn a new skill, I’d be delighted to guide you. My assistant Jessica will need to speak to both of you in advance of booking, to ensure we’re all singing from the same kinky hymn sheet.
Sessioning with a BDSM Mistress can leave you in that most delicious zone: subspace. As such, aftercare can be vital. I always include space and time for us both to decompress and return to earth after a session, and this often happens over a glass of wine or a cup of tea. If you would like to include anything specific as part of this aftercare period, let’s discuss during your consultation.
I accept cash and bank transfer sent to a discreet account. I do not accept credit card payments, Cash App nor PayPal.
If we’ve sessioned together in the past year, I’d be delighted to provide one for you. Do just let Me know in advance if you’re dropping My name.
Dedication pleases Me enormously. To continue on your path of submission, and to learn more about how to serve Me from afar, we can arrange phone and video correspondence between sessions. Jessica can set this up for you.
Devotion can also be shown in other ways. Follow My socials, and should you wish to please Me further, you may treat Me from My wishlist.
You can find some reviews here.
If you’d like to write about our time together, I’d ask that you focus less on physical details and more on the experience in totality – I’m not a fan of vulgarity or tastelessness. My favourite reviews are those that sound like a love note.
These can be sent to Me directly
As a BDSM Mistress, what matters to Me most is connection. Come willing to explore, and open to new experiences, and we’ll spark. Those searching for cursory, impersonal connections need not apply.
First-timers are a particular joy of Mine, and I love guiding curious newcomers gently into their first taste of surrender. Experienced submissives will find a Mistress who knows kink inside and out: I’ve taught it, studied it academically and practised it for over a decade. That depth lets Me take you further than you’ve been before, into richer psychological play, sweeter denial and a level of attention you’ll rarely find elsewhere.
Sexuality, looks, gender, race and disability don’t matter one jot, although I prefer to session with those 21+. If you have any specific physical or access needs, just let Jessica know when you apply. We can then discuss these in more detail during an initial consultation.
I have practised kink in My personal life for as long as I can remember, but I began My formal training as a BDSM Mistress in 2013, with some of London’s most highly regarded kink professionals. I went on to teach, and spent years running the London Dominatrix School. I even wrote My Master’s dissertation on a particularly delicious kink. Do ask Me about it.
I believe we should all remain lifelong students. Long before I spent time at Mistress Damiana Chi’s Evolutionary Dominatrix Academy, I trained as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, mastering the art of touch, breath and embodied pleasure. It allows Me to read your body as closely as your mind, and to guide you into sensations you may never have known you were capable of.
Over a decade on, I’m still as fascinated by what makes you tick as I was on day one.
I take the responsibility of being a Keyholder seriously, as chastity requires considerable commitment from both parties. To ensure your dedication, I ask that we have known each other for at least 6 months, and that we have sessioned a minimum of once a month for 2 hours+ each time. Over this time, our connection and trust will grow, and I will be able to determine your suitability. For Me, honesty, discipline and correct motivation are an integral part of whether we can progress together, and whether you will be able to meet the challenge of chastity.
Then, in advance of becoming your Keyholder, I’ll do a psychological evaluation. In My years of experience as a BDSM Mistress, many submissives fail before they even get that far. Further to this evaluation, we will then draw up a contract for your chastity or long term arrangement. This is a commitment I take very seriously, and I will require you to do the same.
Be sure to read My blog post Sweet Chastity Mistress.
I do. You can contact My assistant Jessica to purchase a ‘lovingly used’ item of this nature.